What's life without love and a few dirty dishes?
Life, Love and Dirty Dishes is mainly about parenting. Living life with small people and the situations we find ourselves in. Dirty Dishes refers to the not so pleasant but unavoidable things we have to deal with. It’s my space where I sometimes talk about hot issues and first world problems. We all need to have a rant every now and then don’t we.
Yes, you heard me. I’m sure it’s some kind of parenting cardinal sin for which I am being punished for with two kids that get up at the crack of dawn every dam day. But it’s true, for my sins, I hate the park. And I know it’s good for them. Fresh air. Climbing. Running […] Read more…
We’ve all had them. Days when parenting is really really tough. Days when you find yourself sobbing on the kitchen floor because it’s all too hard. When you are having one of those days it’s easy to feel totally alone. Because the bad days are not something we talk about often. But the truth is […] Read more…
I’m guessing by now everyone has seen the Gillette advertisement about toxic masculinity. I get why some people are uncomfortable about a brand profiting from the #metoo movement. But for me, the more this is talked about the better. If you are one of the men that finds this advertisement offensive, I do have to […] Read more…
It’s a very scary time for young men. President Trump 2018 Really President Trump. Really? That statement makes me angry. Really angry. Because all my life it’s been a dangerous time to be a young woman. But it is only with the emergence of the #metoo campaign that […] Read more…
There are things I find in life incomprehensible. Serious things like child abuse, and rape. Not so serious things like the Star Wars phenomenon and the fact that at some point This Is us is going to have to end. But I genuinely cannot get my head around the fact that a mentally unstable person […] Read more…
I love the internet. I love the convenience it brings to my life. The ease with which I can keep in contact with family and friends. Not to mention the fact that I never have to leave my house to do the ‘big food shop’. It’s so easy to share things. But I can’t help […] Read more…
Antibiotics have been oversubscribed for years and we are facing a situation where people could become immune to their effects. Therefore something had to change. And I have noticed a change. At my doctors surgery it is incredibly rare to be prescribed antibiotics. Everything is ‘viral’. Whilst I don’t disagree that there needs to be […] Read more…
I try very hard to understand that we all have different parenting techniques. There isn’t a one size fits all approach, for either parents or the children they are parenting. I hate the mum wars and the debates about breast verses bottle, stay at home verses working, and so on. We are all doing the […] Read more…
I was shocked to discover the other day just how many of my friends have been birth shamed. To be honest I didn’t really know it was a thing. But snide little comments about epidurals, C-sections and inductions. Society pushes natural birth on us so much that women feel like they have somehow failed if […] Read more…
My youngest child had a speech delay. He wasn’t really saying anything at the time of his two year check, and his tantrums born from his inability to communicate were hardcore. They brought me to my knees. and often found me googling how to help a child with a speech delay. Now at 4 years […] Read more…
You hear the word natural a lot as soon as you become pregnant. And that word ‘natural’ hangs around for the next year or so. Did you conceive naturally? Was it a natural birth? Breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world. You’ve taken to it like a natural. But when you really think about it having a […] Read more…
A few months ago I got involved in the #aminumber5 campaign through Wear White Again, and I wrote a post about period problems to highlight the 1 in 5 women who suffer from very heavy periods. I was one of those women. I have suffered from incredibly heavy periods since my periods began when I […] Read more…
I’ve often felt like a bit of a misfit or an outsider when it comes to any trends and pop culture. Because most of the time I just don’t get it, or like it! I’ve accepted the fact that in the final year of my thirties I never know who any new song I like […] Read more…
It’s that time of year when we make New Years Resolutions, or promise to be better, healthier versions of ourselves. But in a world of social media I think maybe it’s time to turn those resolutions to our online behaviour. If we all obeyed these few simple facebook rules, then i’m sure we can get […] Read more…
I love Christmas. It’s my favourite time of year. I love the pretty twinkly lights. I love that people are generally just a bit nicer to each other. I get that warm fuzzy glow inside and I get just as excited as when I was 5 years old. However as I far too rapidly approach […] Read more…
My facebook news feed seems to be flooded with ‘news’ stories about parents in uproar because their kids have been sent home from school because of their haircut, or the length of their skirt has breached the school uniform policy. I read these posts often with mouth gaping at the parent’s reaction and the subsequent […] Read more…
I have a big problem with people that blame things on ‘bad luck.’ These same people often attribute other people with being lucky. And it’s something I actually find quite offensive, because it implies that my opportunities had nothing to do with me, and that it was pretty much handed to me on a plate. […] Read more…
I got my first period when I was 11 years old and have been regular as clockwork ever since. Having a best friend who was a year older than me meant I couldn’t wait to start. It was like an exclusive club that I wanted to be a member of so bad. Of course as […] Read more…
I have two children and I am done making babies. I no this with no shadow of a doubt. Give me a newborn and I will coo and cluck and savour those cuddles, but I won’t hand them back and feel a hole that another baby needs to fill. My two kids are enough for […] Read more…
I need to start by saying that I believe men and women are equals. I think there is still a lot of sexism in the world and that makes me sad, and mad. Kids should be allowed to play with whatever toys they want. A toy is a toy, irrespective of gender. Slogans printed […] Read more…