My Love Hate Relationship With Multi Coloured Bricks 

Toys come and go, some stick around longer than others, some are a 5 minute wonder. Right now we are in the midst of the Lego years,

The big one is in to Lego in a big way.  He thinks it is awesome (do you see what I did there?!)  I personally have a bit of a love hate relationship with the coloured bricks and here is why…


Image of lego bricks with the heading the lego years


Love the obvious skills it teaches my son through building and creating.  I am equally proud of the bizarre creations he makes himself as I am when he follows the instructions and builds something that really nearly resembles what it’s supposed to.

Hate the call for “Mummy can you help me find the piece I need for by space impactor exploder?”  I have no idea what a space impactor exploder is, but more importantly I do not know what the “you know the blue bit with the thing” is.  I could lose a whole afternoon rifling through his Lego tub trying to find that one piece and eyeing the baby suspiciously for signs of choking. Especially when after an hour you hear the cry “Yes I found it, I put it in my pocket!”  Note to self – must check all pockets before washing clothes.

Love building the stuff.  I didn’t have Lego as a kid.  I was more of a dolls and Barbie kind of girl.  I have just discovered that it is really cool to make.  My husband and I actually argue over who is going to help our son build something.  Especially when there are instructions to follow.  I love instructions!  It’s the only time you will hear me saying “relax, put your feet up, I’ve got this covered”.

Hate treading on the stuff.  It is a scientific fact proven by mums and dads the world over that stepping on a Lego brick is the second worst pain ever (labour of course being the first).  Not only does it hurt your foot, but it causes secondary pain to your tongue after biting it so hard to stop yourself teaching your child a whole new language.

Love that it keeps my son occupied for ages.  The other day I straightened my hair, and put make up on, and had a hot cup of tea, without a single “I need; a wee* / a poo* / a snack* / an adult to watch me play because I can’t possibly be by myself for more than 5 minutes* / someone who I can ask lots of random questions to*” (* delete as appropriate). Not a peep.  I even went for a wee all by myself.  Amazing.  Awesome even.

Hate that those coloured blocks of joy bring out an obsessive need in me to organise.  I actually considered buying Tupperware to organise all of the Lego pieces (I do love Tupperware, so any excuse!).  I debated whether to sort them by theme, by colour, or by shape.  I cleared my schedule for an evening ready to tackle the job ahead.  Then I explained my idea to my husband and he seemed concerned for my mental health so no Tupperware was purchased.  I just need to accept that the world of Lego is chaotic and unorganised.  It may take some counselling for me to get there.

Image of a lego batman and lego superman. Lego Batman is saying "I can't beleive he put my head on your body". Lego Superman is saying "Let's never speak of this again."


So you see I love the stuff as much as I hate it.  However the fact that I can now pee by myself means that love really does conquer all.  Lego IS awesome.


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13 Comments on The Lego Years

  1. Mama, My Kid Doesn't Poop Rainbows
    October 21, 2015 at 11:13 am (1 year ago)

    I want to a free kids play area today and spent 20 minutes sorting the lego from the duplo from the fake huge lego. I found it very therapeutic and am looking forward to the opportunity to sort my tots lego in the future. I’m imagining sorting by colour with colour coded lids. So I guess what I’m saying is I’ll join you in the loony bin .

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  2. Nicola
    October 20, 2015 at 8:40 pm (1 year ago)

    Lego is definitely awesome!! And I’m a girl and had tonnes of the stuff as a kid!! Can’t wait until our baby’s old enough for it…we’ve bought him some Lego ‘Quattro’ for Christmas (it’s bigger than Duplo!) and I can’t wait to get cracking with it! Found you via #fartglitter 🙂
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  3. Mrs Tubbs
    October 19, 2015 at 11:56 am (1 year ago)

    All so true. There’s one shop that does a Lego Fire Walk as if you can do that in your bare feet, you are truly hardcore! #fartglittler

  4. helen gandy
    October 19, 2015 at 11:27 am (1 year ago)

    Oh god it hurts……it hurts so bloody much when you stand on a piece! Have you ever been in to an actual Lego shop? Does wonders for one’s OCD seeing all the blocks in separate colours, it makes everything right haha. Great post, and like you I have a love/hate relationship with Lego depending on my mood! #fartglitter
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  5. cuddlesmuddles
    November 15, 2014 at 11:33 pm (2 years ago)

    I LOVE lego! It was a great toy for my brother and I to play with together when I was a child and I think it’s brilliant for the imagination. I can’t wait for my daughter to be old enough for it – although I suspect that then I will find I also have a love/hate relationship with the stuff when I am trying to avoid treading on it and keeping it in a semi tidy/organised state! #brilliantblogposts

    • Lifeloveanddirtydishes
      November 18, 2014 at 11:20 am (2 years ago)

      It is good. Apart from the fact that I now have a crawling baby who I am desperately trying to keep away from the Lego!

  6. HonestMum (@HonestMummy)
    November 14, 2014 at 7:30 pm (2 years ago)

    Haha! Feel the same! Ogg to a lego event tomorrow as it goes-sometimes lego in the house magically finds itself in the vacuum cleaner! Thanks for linking up to #brilliantblogposts

  7. Merlinda Little (@pixiedusk)
    November 13, 2014 at 5:41 pm (2 years ago)

    Lego is a fave in the house as well. I dont like it when its on my floor. It hurts A LOT when you step on them. So tiny yet so pricky but I also love it when my son play it. My son plays with his Dad as he is a Lego fanatic too. #brillblogposts

  8. A.PROMPTreply
    November 9, 2014 at 1:47 pm (2 years ago)

    I like your love/hate format here. Very good points on all counts. In the end though, you’re going to have to buckle down and get used to it even with all the cons……the good news is, your son MAY come to the tupperware bin organization philosophy on his own down the line as the projects get bigger!

  9. gluestickmum
    November 9, 2014 at 11:41 am (2 years ago)

    Hell, yes! To each and every point.


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